Can a straight male and a straight female be BFF?

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Originally posted by: thedarkwingduck2k11
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:35 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Strictly a platonic relationship, no history of or potential for a romantic or sexual relationship.
 
Originally posted by: Magson13
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:41 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Why is there no "Yes" option in the poll?
Shitty leading answers.
 
Originally posted by: CD816
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:48 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Yes, my BFF is a BBW that likes UFC and BBC
We, by me not having said qualification, will never engage in physicality
 
Originally posted by: redd1
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:52 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Sure, I've never done, but sure.
 
Originally posted by: thedarkwingduck2k11
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:53 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

CD816 said:
Yes, my BFF is a BBW that likes UFC and BBC
We, by me not having said qualification, will never engage in physicality
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any latent physical attraction there at all though?
 
Originally posted by: CD816
Date: February 16, 2016 at 06:57 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

thedarkwingduck2k11 said:
any latent physical attraction there at all though?
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Not at all. She is truly just my friend. Basically sister.
 
Originally posted by: DimMak
Date: February 16, 2016 at 07:09 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

One of my good female friends and I decided to move in together in order to save on rent. I found the idea of living with a female whom I wasn't dating nor had ever hooked up with to be quite refreshing. And low and behold, days before we sign the lease and make it official, we go out for $1 margarita night to celebrate and get plastered. After the taxi ride back to my place, we decide it was best for her to sleep over, so being a gentlemen I gave her my bed while I took the sofa. At about 3am, I woke up to breasts in my face while she drunkenly tried to take off my pants...
So the roles can definitely be reversed!
Needlessly to say, we didn't move in together bc the last thing I needed was a jealous, psycho roommate who I didn't even find attractive. We still salvaged our friendship, so there's that at least...
 
Originally posted by: NYR30
Date: February 16, 2016 at 07:11 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

I'm a scumbag who only befriends chicks if I intend to bang them. So I'm a bad example, but yes I do believe it can be done with the right 2 people
 
Originally posted by: rhino78
Date: February 16, 2016 at 07:21 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Yes and no, but that depends on the girl. If she's hot, and wants to f@ck, then the dude will f@ck. If she's an uggo and wants it, then dude will say it will ruin the friendship. If she's hot and doesn't want to, then friends it is.
 
Originally posted by: cmvideo75
Date: February 16, 2016 at 07:45 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

BFF... lol. Not forever but maybe for like a month.
 
Originally posted by: chromie
Date: February 16, 2016 at 08:52 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

poll options should have been "yes"/"no"
 
Originally posted by: Sapper
Date: February 16, 2016 at 09:00 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Sure. If they are both gay.
 
Originally posted by: Gnarcore
Date: February 16, 2016 at 09:02 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Yes...but slight tension is always there.
 
Originally posted by: BRF
Date: February 16, 2016 at 09:18 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

CD816 said:
Yes, my BFF is a BBW that likes UFC and BBC
We, by me not having said qualification, will never engage in physicality
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Ultimate fighting and British News? what a weird combo
 
Originally posted by: redd1
Date: February 16, 2016 at 09:29 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

BRF said:
Ultimate fighting and British News? what a weird combo
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You poor sweet summer child.....stay free.
 
Originally posted by: Jorge P
Date: February 17, 2016 at 08:54 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Biologically it is far less likely. Normally if you have that deep a bond with someone of the sex you are attracted to then feelings of romance will develop.
 
Originally posted by: Thir13en
Date: February 17, 2016 at 09:20 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Entire movie devoted to this topic.
 
Originally posted by: princecharlestampon
Date: February 17, 2016 at 02:19 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

Yes, definitely.
 
Originally posted by: rhino78
Date: February 17, 2016 at 03:05 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

princecharlestampon said:
Yes, definitely.
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Wrong. Your girl, and he's lying to you.
 
Originally posted by: JonB
Date: February 17, 2016 at 03:13 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/can-a-straight-male-and-a-straight-female-be-bff.68480/

It's possible, but I think it depends on the circumstances. For most of us, I'm sure friendships have at least some element of physical attraction thrown in, but personality and other things matter too. Most of my friends are women, and I'm probably capable of being attracted to more than half of them. But I don't always think of them in that way if there's some other reason to be their friend. I'm a strong believer in "Friends with potential," (i.e. it could happen, but it doesn't have to), and I have that mentality for many of my friends. But for some it's just a matter of inconveniences (too far away, can't deal with my military schedule, not attracted to me because of xyz, etc...). Whether or not one of those things lead to me becoming an acquaintance or just ending the whole thing depends on the situation.
I don't have any BFFs, but my closest friends include two Marines, a couple I've known for eight years, a woman in Colorado, and a person I've dated before. I started as a friend with the last person because she was taken at the time.
 
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