First this is not a troll thread!
I am seriously having this happen......
Most of you know from my posts I am a republican who firmly has a faith in GOD!
Every Thursday in the past 3 weeks there is this girl who has given me a lot of attention. She is in the Obvious Lesbian gang! It is quite uncomfortable for me. . . .. . . . . :?
She tells me how nice I look every week and even went as far as telling me she watches me bowl! Sure enough tonight she payed me compliments and every time I went to bowl she was watching me...........as well as her other lesbian friends!
She flirts with me in a much more invasive way then the male bartender!.............
Should I rebuke her verbally? Do a full on make out with Seawall in the bowling alley to show her there's no chance!?
Her attention to me is getting quite disturbing. I am in no way rude in my RL...but more of a push over......and I have NO idea on how to stop this!
cobra_punch said:
Just do to her what I do to people who ask me for money, ignore them. This pisses them off, especially black people, lol..
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So when she comes up to me and looks at me and says "how are you".......I should just get up and walk away without giving her a response? Serious question.......
Serious answer. If you are not at work, you are not required by law to talk to, acknowledge, or look at someone. If they are offended by that, it is their problem, not yours.
I think Seawall needs to fill us in on what this chick looks like.
Does she like a little male action? (yes I'm referring to Seawall)
Maybe bring her home and have a 3 way.
She won't come back.
Ugh ya can be a little weird, i had the same thing happen at my work with a rather old unstraight male. he is a nice guy and fun to talk to but sometimes he would make comments that were just out of line and made me feel super uncomfortable. the way i dealt with it was just told him " look cal, your a cool dude to talk to and i have nothing against you being gay, but we need to keep the conversations professional. im flattered you find me attractive but im not like that and not interested. like i said you are a good person but your advances and comments are making me uncomfortable " he was understanding and apologized. Ever since then me and cal have been Super cool with one another in the smoke pit; he isn't even offend when i call him " h--- " then again he calls me " breeder boy ".
Shaking head at Rock -
TURD - I saw it, thanks. It is kind of like...........We ALL know they are the Lesbian group, could she just be trying to be a girlfriend....or more. I think more, cause the constant staring and admittance of staring........but confusing cause she has not really "touched" me yet. Just uncomfortable conversation and staring.
well lemme ask you then, why are you hanging out with them out side of work if they are not the kinda group you wanna hang out with? i understand trying to be nice to everyone so they dont think you are a b---- or douche; but if they are a group of people you arnt to keen on having a serious friendship with otherwise its best to not fraternize outside of work
TurdFurguson said:
well lemme ask you then, why are you hanging out with them out side of work if they are not the kinda group you wanna hang out with? i understand trying to be nice to everyone so they dont think you are a b---- or douche; but if they are a group of people you arnt to keen on having a serious friendship with otherwise its best to not fraternize outside of work
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We bowl with them.
I am not willing to give up a hobby I love, due to other's who love the same, but aren't people I would have in my tight social network.
TurdFurguson said:
well lemme ask you then, why are you hanging out with them out side of work if they are not the kinda group you wanna hang out with? i understand trying to be nice to everyone so they dont think you are a b---- or douche; but if they are a group of people you arnt to keen on having a serious friendship with otherwise its best to not fraternize outside of work
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I hope that is a quote from a movie I don't recognize. Which movie is it? I want to know now.
Tamara...... said:
Thanks, I try not to be rude in RL..........this (your response) seems quite rude to me as well as an answer.
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Observing your own private space is being rude? If someone asks you for money or a cigarette, then you feel obligated to explain to them why you won't give them one? Yes, I do ignore people in real life, and I enjoy it. It's kind of like saying "F-- You" without actually saying it.
Plus, if I beat the sh== out of a guy, my record is clean, and he probably has some type of felony conviction in his past. I can tell the jury that I did not say anything to the guy and he put his hands on me. He'll be charged for assault as well as getting his a-- kicked..
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Tamara...... said:
Thanks, I try not to be rude in RL..........this (your response) seems quite rude to me as well as an answer.
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Observing your own private space is being rude? If someone asks you for money or a cigarette, then you feel obligated to explain to them why you won't give them one?
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I am that person!
Tamara...... said:
TurdFurguson said:
well lemme ask you then, why are you hanging out with them out side of work if they are not the kinda group you wanna hang out with? i understand trying to be nice to everyone so they dont think you are a b---- or douche; but if they are a group of people you arnt to keen on having a serious friendship with otherwise its best to not fraternize outside of work
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We bowl with them.
I am not willing to give up a hobby I love, due to other's who love the same, but aren't people I would have in my tight social network.
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mmm ok then, i would resort to my first post then. Let her know you like bowling with her and such, but its strictly professional, and that she is making you uncomfortable.
Cobra has a point as well if she doesnt take that for answer and doesnt listen, you might need to snub her.
I think CP had the answer. Even though it seems rude as ever to me, I am going to try it next week. I may even stick a finger up my nose whilst the staring is going on.....
