What would you do if your girlfriend/wife...

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: rencapmon
Date: November 07, 2012 at 10:10 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

Kisses another girl.
Would you consider its cheating or would you be ok with it.
Im saying this beacuse my girlfriend is into girls too and I been thinking about it.
I knew this when we first met and I was like this is awesome Im gonna have a threesome and we consider this option when we started going out but the oppoutunity never came.
Now we have been together for a year and we live together and there is no way in hell she is letting this happen, because she wouldnt stand watching me be with another girl.
But if she finds herself in a position where she can kiss another girl, and Im there and she wants to do it, I dont know what I would do...
Part of me thinks that is cheating and probably would end it....but in the other hand I would probably be like..Go for it I wanna watch!
What would you do?

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: mabrown45
Date: November 07, 2012 at 10:14 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

my wife likes girls........and over the past year we started having 3sums
its great.......but there has to be no jealousy involved. You have to be secure in your relationship
its something you have to talk about ahead of time........have to lay out all the rules and guidelines

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: rencapmon
Date: November 07, 2012 at 10:48 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

Yes I think the 3sums are something that can happen overtime Ive been with my gf for one year only........how long have youve been with your wife?

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: mabrown45
Date: November 07, 2012 at 10:53 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

rencapmon said:
Yes I think the 3sums are something that can happen overtime Ive been with my gf for one year only........how long have youve been with your wife?
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7 years.....something we never really discussed till the last year or so.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: osubuckeye4
Date: November 07, 2012 at 11:02 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

I don't really think that anyone can answer this for you man. This is one of those things that you have to figure out for youself, and it's probably one of those things that your viewpoint on will change with over time depending on the situations you find yourself in.
Personally?
I think it really depends on the situation and the intent of the action.
If you're both at a bar and some random stranger (of either sex) runs up to one of you and shoves their tounge down your throat, that's a definite WTF moment... but not towards each other, just towards that random person. It's something that might rile either of you up about at the moment, but, you will both probably laugh about the next day.
If you're at a wedding and the brides mother starts giving kisses to all of her bridesmaids (your girl being one) in front of the entire church in a completely non-sexual way, I mean that's not really something to be mad about. Again, it's one of those things you both probably laugh/joke around about at the reception.
Now, if you're at a party and you turn your shoulder and your girl is making out with her best friend that she hangs out with multiple times a week... that's probably going to be something the two of you are going to need to sit down and talk about, and it might be something worth losing her over depending on the way the conversation goes.
Kissing is such a silly thing though. In some cultures strangers kiss as a greeting. In other cultures, dudes beat the s--- out of people for kissing their girl on the cheek.
This is probably a bunch of rambling nonsense, but if it helped in any way than I'm glad.
Anyways, no one on here should be able to definitively answer this for you. It's something you really need to figure out your own viewpoint on.
Good luck.!

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: 1bannedego
Date: November 07, 2012 at 11:26 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

beginning of the end. enjoy the ride while you can.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: osubuckeye4
Date: November 07, 2012 at 11:32 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

1bannedego said:
beginning of the end. enjoy the ride while you can.
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That's true for most relationships though.
For every one that works (till death), there are at least 90-95% that don't.
(okay I pulled that percentage out of my ***, but still)
Divorce rate in the country is over 50%, and those are the people that actually choose to get married. Think about all the relationships that fail before they even get to that stage.
I completely agree that it's VERY rare to find a relationship that works when one party is cool with the other party sleeping with members of the same sex (I can't say I know anyone in this situation)... but then again it's pretty rare to find a relationship that stands the test of time period.
So, yea.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: rencapmon
Date: November 07, 2012 at 11:52 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

osubuckeye4 said:
I don't really think that anyone can answer this for you man. This is one of those things that you have to figure out for youself, and it's probably one of those things that your viewpoint on will change with over time depending on the situations you find yourself in.
Personally?
I think it really depends on the situation and the intent of the action.
If you're both at a bar and some random stranger (of either sex) runs up to one of you and shoves their tounge down your throat, that's a definite WTF moment... but not towards each other, just towards that random person. It's something that might rile either of you up about at the moment, but, you will both probably laugh about the next day.
If you're at a wedding and the brides mother starts giving kisses to all of her bridesmaids (your girl being one) in front of the entire church in a completely non-sexual way, I mean that's not really something to be mad about. Again, it's one of those things you both probably laugh/joke around about at the reception.
Now, if you're at a party and you turn your shoulder and your girl is making out with her best friend that she hangs out with multiple times a week... that's probably going to be something the two of you are going to need to sit down and talk about, and it might be something worth losing her over depending on the way the conversation goes.
Kissing is such a silly thing though. In some cultures strangers kiss as a greeting. In other cultures, dudes beat the s**t out of people for kissing their girl on the cheek.
This is probably a bunch of rambling nonsense, but if it helped in any way than I'm glad.
Anyways, no one on here should be able to definitively answer this for you. It's something you really need to figure out your own viewpoint on.
Good luck.!
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Thanks for the tips my friend
Yeah I think a random kiss probably wont mean anything but something like her kissing another girl in a bar in a sexual manner would be totally diferent.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: TurdFurguson
Date: November 07, 2012 at 12:08 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

Are you allowed to kiss other girls or guys as well?

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: coreymb
Date: November 07, 2012 at 12:27 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

mabrown45 said:
my wife likes girls........and over the past year we started having 3sums
its great.......but there has to be no jealousy involved. You have to be secure in your relationship
its something you have to talk about ahead of time........have to lay out all the rules and guidelines
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I agree.
I've been in similar relationships and never had issues. If things are secure, there is no jealousy and the trust is there-it can work with no problems.. I can see how it would back fire for many as well though.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: phoman
Date: November 07, 2012 at 01:05 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

You need trust and 100% trust if there is such a thing, and trust is an easy thing to destroy.
You need to ask yourself how you would feel if this leads to your relationship ending and if it's worth it.
Sometimes it can work but you will be walking on thin ice, tread carefully. Kissing is probably no big deal, gets complicated after that

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: MMAddict710
Date: November 07, 2012 at 01:14 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

I would be cool with it as long as it doesn't go any further than that. If they started going down on each other and I wasn't involved I would end it immediately, but I don't see any problem with just kissing.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: JonnyF
Date: November 07, 2012 at 01:46 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

With previous girls, I'd be fine with it, but I have no desire to share my fiancee.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: coreymb
Date: November 07, 2012 at 02:15 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

phoman said:
You need to ask yourself how you would feel if this leads to your relationship ending and if it's worth it.
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This is where you need a secure relationship. There are plenty of women that love the touch of a women, but want nothing to do with them in terms of an actual relationship. So, if you have women like that, she's crazy about you and desires no other man, but like the tough of another women here and there-I'm cool with that. I'm a little lax on sex though-I don't see it as big of a deal as some. Now maybe other women have other motives, who knows, but I think it can work under the right circumstances. In fact, I know it can.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: rencapmon
Date: November 07, 2012 at 02:56 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

TurdFurguson said:
Are you allowed to kiss other girls or guys as well?
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No
....as far as girls...shes said that she wouldnt mind me kissing another guy, that It will turn her on....but she knows that it something i will never do.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: redd1
Date: November 07, 2012 at 06:49 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

rencapmon said:
TurdFurguson said:
Are you allowed to kiss other girls or guys as well?
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No
....as far as girls...shes said that she wouldnt mind me kissing another guy, that It will turn her on....but she knows that it something i will never do.
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That would kill it for me, or at least it would have to be something where we agreed that both of us were participating or neither of us were participating, or at least that is how it worked for me and a few exes.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: BRF
Date: November 07, 2012 at 09:08 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

rencapmon said:
What would you do if your girlfriend/wife Kisses another girl.
threesome?
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u answered your own question

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: RearNakedSlam
Date: November 07, 2012 at 09:49 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

If I was involved in this, then it wouldn't really be cheating, because we're both involved. If she was on her own, and kissed a girl, then I would consider it cheating and kick her *** to the curb. I don't care who she cheats with, because cheating is cheating, and I wouldn't put up with that s---. It's one of those things that I absolutely will not tolerate.

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: CopperHeart
Date: November 08, 2012 at 11:57 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

rencapmon said:
TurdFurguson said:
Are you allowed to kiss other girls or guys as well?
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No
....as far as girls...shes said that she wouldnt mind me kissing another guy, that It will turn her on....but she knows that it something i will never do.
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What if he looks like this?

 

[Nastycrow]

Originally posted by: TurdFurguson
Date: November 08, 2012 at 12:07 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/what-would-you-do-if-your-girlfriend-wife.49148/

rencapmon said:
TurdFurguson said:
Are you allowed to kiss other girls or guys as well?
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No
....as far as girls...shes said that she wouldnt mind me kissing another guy, that It will turn her on....but she knows that it something i will never do.
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Well that's not fair.