I am f---ing devastated...

Originally posted by: ulloa4h
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:52 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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What about MMA before Ho's? The girl I'm dating was pissed because her birthday was on the same day as the Liddell/Evans fight. I spent the day with her, but she did not want to watch the fight that night, so i went and watched it by myself. By the end of the night, I was pissed as well because "Sugar" brutally KO'd the Iceman. But anyway she was pissed, but she did not leave me over that...So she knows that I am serious about watching MMA, but as for NFL, NBA, etc, I put her before those, otherwise she will Really feel Neglected. I still love MMA, but I have toned down on the other sports watching because of her.
 
Originally posted by: Big_Boy
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:54 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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iceman22 said:
Big_Boy said:
Now when you were going to ask her to marry you was it out of your own free will or was it because of pressure?
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Because i wanted to and was ready to ask her.
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I'm glad that was the case because I have friends who have married out of pressure and in the long run it has affected them.
Good luck man. Don't worry your self sick, I know 7 years is a LONG *** time but keep your head up.
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:54 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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iceman22 said:
Shes not cheating on me and she didn't meet another guy. There was no neglect, i treated her like gold.. Her friends didn't get into her head about anything either and it certainly had nothing to do with video games. She left me because she has been braking my balls for months about getting married. at the time i had just graduated college and i told her that
i wasn't as ready as i thought i was and that i wanted to get settled
in with work and s**t before i asked her. She was cool with it and whatever, but last night we were talking about it again and she felt that i was committed to her because i haven't asked her to marry me yet. Her mom, sister and 2 of her closest friends all called me and that's basically what she told them. Like i said before i was going to ask her on Christmas Eve in New york City at Rockefeller Center under the giant Christmas tree cause she always said that she wanted to go there around Christmas time and Ice skate at Rockefeller Center and see the tree... I guess that's out of the question now..
Thanks for the support guys, Have a good Thanksgiving, ill see you all around.
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bro...my brother told me this when he first got married and had kids. contrary to popular belief there is NEVER a time in a mans life when you sit down and say "hey, you know what...my bank account is healthy, things seem pretty stable right now...i think i'm ready to start a family". Marriage and kids are something you react to! You find the right girl...and you either just get married cuz she's the one or you live together cuz you dont want to go thru the hassle of the wedding. Kids you either have because you didnt pull out in time and you roll with it, or you inherit because your girl had kids from a previous relationship. In either case...you adapt! If i waited until i felt i was "ready" to buy a house i'd still be renting. You just man up, and rely on the fact that 1) your parents raised you well & and you know how to love & respect women 2) you strive to be a better father than yours 3) you strive to be a better parent then yours 4) at the end of the day, if you can look at yourself in the mirror (without an affliction shirt & mouthpiece) then thats all that matters..
Hang in bro.....life has a funny way of working itself out
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:54 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Re: I am f**king devastated...
iceman22 said:
Big_Boy said:
Now when you were going to ask her to marry you was it out of your own free will or was it because of pressure?
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Because i wanted to and was ready to ask her.
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Dude, I say forget the NY plans and ask her. If she says "yes", we have a winner and if she says "no" well it's time to move on.
 
Originally posted by: Ace23
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:56 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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I understand if it was like you were watching everyday or what not.
UFC PPV's only come around once a month. If she is holding you to that, there is a problem. My lady watches the NFL and UFC with me, so Im lucky, but Id watch anyway even she didnt.
You dont want a women controlling what you watch or what you do.
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:56 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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phoenix-mma said:
iceman22 said:
Shes not cheating on me and she didn't meet another guy. There was no neglect, i treated her like gold.. Her friends didn't get into her head about anything either and it certainly had nothing to do with video games. She left me because she has been braking my balls for months about getting married. at the time i had just graduated college and i told her that
i wasn't as ready as i thought i was and that i wanted to get settled
in with work and s**t before i asked her. She was cool with it and whatever, but last night we were talking about it again and she felt that i was committed to her because i haven't asked her to marry me yet. Her mom, sister and 2 of her closest friends all called me and that's basically what she told them. Like i said before i was going to ask her on Christmas Eve in New york City at Rockefeller Center under the giant Christmas tree cause she always said that she wanted to go there around Christmas time and Ice skate at Rockefeller Center and see the tree... I guess that's out of the question now..
Thanks for the support guys, Have a good Thanksgiving, ill see you all around.
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4)
at the end of the day, if you can look at yourself in the mirror (without an affliction shirt & mouthpiece
) then thats all that matters..
Hang in bro.....life has a funny way of working itself out
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I can always count on this ninja for some humor :lol:
 
Originally posted by: xXzygoteXx
Date: November 26, 2008 at 02:58 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Re: I am f**king devastated...
iceman22 said:
Big_Boy said:
Now when you were going to ask her to marry you was it out of your own free will or was it because of pressure?
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Because i wanted to and was ready to ask her.
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Good to hear it wasn't pressure and wish you the best of luck...She was just a month away from realizing you were committed to her...hope things work out for you man...
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:01 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Re: I am f**king devastated...
AceTruth23 said:
I understand if it was like you were watching everyday or what not.
UFC PPV's only come around once a month. If she is holding you to that, there is a problem. My lady watches the NFL and UFC with me, so Im lucky, but Id watch anyway even she didnt.
You dont want a women controlling what you watch or what you do
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Yeah no doubt about that. If they are in control you bet they are going to demand the remote control when you sit down together. After that she probably control the finances and then all the decision making will have to go through her. It's not your ideal relationship that's for sure. Some guys love the women who takes charges but that is a little to much for me. My 2 cents.
 
Originally posted by: xXzygoteXx
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:01 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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phoenix-mma said:
the key is to find a girl who's just cool with you AND your friends. of course you will spend more time with her as the relationship grows, but all of us have had friends that totally bail on you when they get into a relationship. my girls cool...she'll go with me to the strip club, buy dances for me, go with me to watch the fights, etc....and most importantly my boys like having her around. she's not overbearing, she fits in. this summer she asked me to go to the "sex and the city" movie with her, and i was like...."Ummmm nah!" she goes.." but i go and watch the fights with you, why cant you go to the movie with me?". well, first, i dont beg you to go to watch the ufc fights, you just come....and secondly i dont like sex and the city. Honestly if she felt that we didnt spend enough quality time together and it was important for me to go with her, then i'd go (no i wouldnt)...but i also want her to have things she does with the girls, and things i do with my boys. the biggest mistake people make is they feel like their significant other has to be EVERYTHING and their lives become so blurred you have nothing left for yourself and you feel smothered. thats why when she says..."hey its girls night out"...cool !! have fun! but when its "boys night out"..she respects that and doesnt blow up my phone every 10minutes asking where i am...
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Yeah man, totally agree...Learned that from my prev relationship...My gf fits in w/ my friends and she's cool w/ me just hanging w/ the boys...She can do her thing and I can do mine w/ no prob's...
 
Originally posted by: Shock-G
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:01 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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...at the end of the day, if you can look at yourself in the mirror (without an affliction shirt & mouthpiece) then thats all that matters.
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Speechless...........
:lol: :lol: :lol:
 
Originally posted by: ulloa4h
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:03 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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I just don't see how Video Games can get in the way of a relationship for anyone. I mean, they are not live, so you can play them whenever. I usually play those after I am finished with all my business for the day, or when I am on the road I play the PSP or the DS. But never have I turned down an offer for s3x or even to go to the movies with a woman for a video game. This sh1t is not live, and it will always be there waiting for you, whenever you have some free time.
 
Originally posted by: Ace23
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:04 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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You dont want your chick questioning why you spent $10 bucks on lunch today.
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:13 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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AceTruth23 said:
You dont want your chick questioning why you spent $10 bucks on lunch today.
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yeah....money is a HUGE problem starter. My boy Tyler has been married for like 10yrs. He lives out in Chandler which is like a suburb on the SE edge of Phx, i live on the NW edge (about 60miles away) so when he gets to go out with the guys his wife usually will just say "crash at their house" cuz she doesnt want him driving. So last month he came out to watch a UFC fight and we went to the strip club after...anyway, he was soo excited to get out of the house he was pulling $40 a day from the atm starting on sunday-sat. He tells me the story and i go "why were you pullin $40 a day?" He says....because my wife will check our account online and if she sees a $300 withdrawl she'll know we're at the strip club...but she doesnt question small amounts...... :lol: :lol: :lol: classic!!! sad but true!
p.s. i never want to have to get excited to go out with the boys...
 
Originally posted by: Ace23
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:15 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:19 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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screw that!!!!!!...my money is my money. my girls money is her money. when we go out i'll buy drinks....if she buys a round thats on her. when we go out of town i usually cover hotel, etc....she'll pick up a tank of gas or a meal, or buy me something cool...but we dont sweat each other. even if we get married i still want seperate accounts, and maybe have a joint account we pay bills out of
 
Originally posted by: xXzygoteXx
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:22 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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Another lesson I learned...W/ my prev gf, we had everything joint...Checking, credit cards, phone, etc...
My current gf and I came to an understanding that even if we do get married, what's mine is mine and what's hers is hers...So thank god I won't have to encounter money issues of "Where did you spend so n so?"
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:23 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Re: I am f**king devastated...
phoenix-mma said:
AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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screw that!!!!!!...my money is my money. my girls money is her money. when we go out i'll buy drinks....if she buys a round thats on her. when we go out of town i usually cover hotel, etc....she'll pick up a tank of gas or a meal, or buy me something cool...but we dont sweat each other. even if we get married i still want seperate accounts, and maybe have a joint account we pay bills out of
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Phoenix, you're some high roller bud. I want to hang out in your suite at the Cards game. Have some shrimp scampi ready for me man.
 
Originally posted by: xXzygoteXx
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:25 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Re: I am f**king devastated...
phoenix-mma said:
AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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screw that!!!!!!...my money is my money. my girls money is her money. when we go out i'll buy drinks....if she buys a round thats on her. when we go out of town i usually cover hotel, etc....she'll pick up a tank of gas or a meal, or buy me something cool...but we dont sweat each other. even if we get married i still want seperate accounts, and maybe have a joint account we pay bills out of
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I hear ya man, same here...I had to learn the hard way...Still dealing w/ joint issues from a prev gf...
 
Originally posted by: Andre3000
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:27 PM
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Guys,
Might I suggest that this thread not be used to crack jokes or to speculate about what might have caused this to happen? Iceman is obviously reading this stuff and I know if it was me, it would make me feel worse. I realize that no harm is intended, but I also know what it feels like to be shattered when someone leaves you, and I wouldn't have wanted to hear guys who know nothing about the situation saying that she was probably cheating on me.
Not trying to be a d*ck, just trying to be sensitive to the situation.
 
Originally posted by: Ace23
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:28 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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xXzygoteXx said:
AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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Another lesson I learned...W/ my prev gf, we had everything joint...Checking, credit cards, phone, etc...
My current gf and I came to an understanding that even if we do get married, what's mine is mine and what's hers is hers...So thank god I won't have to encounter money issues of "Where did you spend so n so?"
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Me and my fiance came to an agreement also. We both get to pull out $300 a month for personal use, all the other money goes to bills, needs, and savings.
So the $300 isnt for food or gas, its for personal stuff.
 
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