I am f---ing devastated...

Originally posted by: eazye
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:28 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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My buddy used to get railed for spending 10 bucks on lunch with me yet she could go out and spend 200 on shopping, go figure.
These 2 were engaged but he broke it off when he told her she was too immature to get married (he was 22, she was 20) and she came back with "its either get married or its over" and he responded with "well, guess you oughta pack some stuff". I questioned it from day 1 but I let him figure it out on his own.
To quote the great Ric Flair "Women can do some good things for you and they can turn around and some bad things against you too."
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:30 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Tai_Mai_Shu said:
phoenix-mma said:
AceTruth23 said:
My buddy gets the 3rd degree for pulling out a $20 spot.
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screw that!!!!!!...my money is my money. my girls money is her money. when we go out i'll buy drinks....if she buys a round thats on her. when we go out of town i usually cover hotel, etc....she'll pick up a tank of gas or a meal, or buy me something cool...but we dont sweat each other. even if we get married i still want seperate accounts, and maybe have a joint account we pay bills out of
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Phoenix, you're some high roller bud. I want to hang out in your suite at the Cards game. Have some shrimp scampi ready for me man.
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i dont know about being a high roller....but i just dont let money kill my relationship. i'm not the kind of guy that when we go out say..."well i bought two rounds, you only bought one...its your turn". I look at it as...what goes around comes around. i have a good paying job...but shoot, with this economy it could be gone tomorrow. and i've had times when i go out with my boys and they decide to skip out when its their turn (CHAD!!!)..but most are standup dudes .but there is soo much more important crap in a relationship then to get caught up on money. its not the money that causes problems, its the LIES about where the money is going.
but yeah man, you ever make it out to phx we'll hit up the town....fo sho!!
 
Originally posted by: dombrow3
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:32 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Hey that blows man....Big time! There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Hopefully you guys will hear from each other soon....Otherwise...Enjoy being single again! I wish I was!
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:42 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Andre3000 said:
Guys,
Not trying to be a d*ck,
just trying to be sensitive to the situation.
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you don't have to try, you just are one. j/k
I'm playing bro!
 
Originally posted by: Andre3000
Date: November 26, 2008 at 03:57 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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My story....
The only girlfriend I've had who dumped me was the one before my current GF. It was while I was studying for the Bar admission exams and I remember thinking at the time that I am going to fail and get 0% because I couldn't think of anything but her. It was so bad that I couldn't even listen to music... ANY music, never mind just love songs... for several weeks. I checked my emails like every five minutes to see if she had written me something and would pray that there was a message from her in my voice mail every time I got home. Anytime I did get an email from her I would analyze it for hours, trying to interpret in my favour to find some glimmer of hope that she decide she wanted me back.
I lost weight. I lost interest in all the hobbies I had before. My friends and family tried to help but I was basically inconsolable for a long time. Time seemed to go by so slowly. Life sucked and it felt like I would never get over it.
What I do know now looking back is that you do get over it. As Arch said, it might take a while, but it does happen. Eventually you look back on it and you can't believe that you were so consumed by it for so long. And in my case (as in many cases), once you have a little distance from the situation you realize that being dumped was the best thing that ever happened to you. You learn a lot about yourself from the experience, and you come out the other end as a stronger person. You also inevitably meet someone who is better for you than the person who let you go.
I normally wouldn't make such a feminino post, but I know that when I got dumped it made me feel a lot better to be reminded that others had gone through similar things, so hopefully this is of some help to Iceman.
 
Originally posted by: Ace23
Date: November 26, 2008 at 04:02 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Ive had about 2 of those times happen to me.
It sucked. But your right, you get over it after time. Thats the main thing, is the time to get over it.
Accepting it is the first step, staying busy and trying not to think about it is the next step.
 
Originally posted by: BRAD
Date: November 26, 2008 at 04:03 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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nice post Dre.... i need to show this to someone.... thanx man
things happen for a reason, its hard at first but, it prolly for the best or you two will work it out if its meant to be ya know
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 04:07 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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AceTruth23 said:
Ive had about 2 of those times happen to me.
It sucked. But your right, you get over it after time. Thats the main thing, is the time to get over it.
Accepting it is the first step, staying busy and trying not to think about it is the next step.
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Yeah it sucks. I got a buddy going through this right now and I'm talking to him once a weekly to get his mind off that. Never said him like that before. Almost like he lost a close relative.
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 04:11 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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i think ultimately you have to ask yourself..."do i want someone that doesnt want me?" sometimes we as men get caught up in the ego part...and its about "turning her". I'll make he want me again. maybe, maybe not! but if you went on a blind date and the girl said ....ehhh you're just not my type, you wouldnt spend time trying to get her to like you (well some guys would)...but you're NOT gonna lose sleep over it. spend the time finding someone that loves you back with the same effort.
funny story i always tell....i was at a strip club awhile back and a girl hit me up for a lapdance...i'm always polite and said.."no thanks". she got offended like i was the first person that had ever said no to her...she made a rude comment and i said...."hey, excuse me...wtf is your deal? dont take it personal, i just dont want a dance from you"....she goes..."why not??"...i said..."lemme ask you...do you wanna come home with me and f**k?"....she goes..."no!"...i said, "well why not???" she goes..."you're not my type!".....to which i replied...."EXACTLY"! I guarantee neither of us lost sleep that night...
 
Originally posted by: Tai_Mai_Shu
Date: November 26, 2008 at 04:37 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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The hardest part for Iceman is going to be getting his mind off her. I mean 7 years is a long time and I know they he will think about the good times they had together, all the bad times, times when each of them were sick and they were there for each other. I mean you go through a lot and then out of the blue it's gone like the wind. I know it's going to take some time but it's going to be hard not to think about what you've been through and if this is how it's going to end, I'm sure he would've had some regrets like why didn't I go to this event with my buddies or why I didn't I do this or that. It sucks for sure but hopefully another girl will come along thats right for the Iceman. I just hope Iceman doesn't pick somebody up just so he can get his mind over her or just because he want to be with a female companion. Take your time and you'll find that right girl.
 
Originally posted by: mma101biz
Date: November 26, 2008 at 07:27 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Pick yourself up. Dust yourself off. f--- a couple of her friends and forget all about her.
 
Originally posted by: The Green_Wombat
Date: November 26, 2008 at 07:43 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Dre- thanks for posting that story, that's a great post.
Phoenix-mma. Brad and Tai- thanks for all the pick me ups and advice.
And everyone else thanks for the opinions and advice.
believe it or not it does help to hear other people's thoughts.You guys are all right about one thing, and that is this f---ing sucks.. i'm just walking around the house and looking at all the pictures and s--- of the two of us, then i walk into the bedroom and see her empty dresser and closet and its just a f---ing shock. and I'm sure it will get worse then better.
the one thing i keep telling myself is that "ya win some and ya lose some but life always goes on." i guess we will see if that helps.
 
Originally posted by: Shock-G
Date: November 26, 2008 at 08:00 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Now I'm tell you this from personal experience.. you ain't gonna sleep very much tonight. I would
highly
recommend you take 2 Tylenol PM to knock yourself out.
 
Originally posted by: phoenix-mma
Date: November 26, 2008 at 08:25 PM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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"we will likely fix the economy, capture bin laden and figure out who's gonna beat anderson silva before we discover why women do what they do.....so, in the meantime let's enjoy our money, women and mma........f**k bin laden"
Tim A. (phoenix-mma)
 
Originally posted by: Prizzy
Date: November 27, 2008 at 01:14 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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iceman22 said:
I just got home from picking up my grandma in New Jersey. And when i got home I found a note on the table and all of my girlfriends stuff gone. She left me after almost 7 years (Dec 14 would have been 7 years). I am f**king shocked, this came out of nowhere. She was the only girl i have ever been with and the only person that has been there for me my through everything... the worst part is i was going to ask her to marry me on Christmas eve.. i had it all planned out and it was going to be awesome. and now shes gone... I am so shocked/hurt/upset i have no idea what to do...
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Awww im so sorry to hear that
.Its going to be a rough one this year obviously,but keep ya head up and stay strong!
 
Originally posted by: Shaunissey
Date: November 27, 2008 at 01:43 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Bitches man, bitches. Keep your chin up. All this means is that there is someone better out there, and in the meantime there is time to clear your mind by notching your belt and clearing the pipes wherever, whenever, and with whomever.
 
Originally posted by: Smasher170
Date: November 27, 2008 at 06:31 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Keep trucking Ice...Seriously if you have not broke up with a girl before, especially one you wanted to marry it is going to suck beyond all EPIC proportions, worse than anything expect say an unnatural death to a loved one...I mean when my first GF broke up with me for nothing after only a year I was depressed as hell, I was thinking up crazy $hit to like leaving Hawaii to join Blackwater or one of those Alaskan fishing crews, and I was dead serious too. Just KNOW it gets better for sure.
Throw the pictures, the memories, just toss em, don't check your cell every 10 minutes either to see if she called.....oh, and no matter what, if you see her with another guy during your mourning period DO NOT kill the dude, it might feel good, but it'd probably end up being a bad idea. Stick in there man.
 
Originally posted by: Cavediver
Date: November 27, 2008 at 10:16 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Sorry to hear that Bro...If theres any consolation in it ,just be glad it wasn't after you've been married and had kids.Now you know she wasn't the ONE.Unfortunate as it is.I had gotten married to this girl I had been with for 4 years.I had gotten sick and had to go on treatment kind of like Chemo.....She wanted no part of it or me so she split and left me alone thru the process.I have reconciled the issue with myself and forgave her and moved on..........Just remember Life is Good .This pain will pass and you'll be a better man for it.
 
Originally posted by: Showdown
Date: November 27, 2008 at 11:16 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Treat yourself to a really good prostitute. Not the trashy $2 kind, but the high class, NFL 2g's a night kind. And let her lick your wounds.
 
Originally posted by: Castellammarese
Date: November 27, 2008 at 11:25 AM
Source: https://forum.mmajunkie.com/threads/i-am-f-ing-devastated.7808/
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Showdown said:
Treat yourself to a really good prostitute. Not the trashy $2 kind, but the high class, NFL 2g's a night kind. And let her lick your wounds.
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There is a place where you can get a prostitute for $2. WOW.
Is this the place called heaven I hear people speak so highly of
 
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