Rhino78
OG Junkie GOAT
If your wife is fine with it and it won't hurt your bank account, enjoy the trip, as gay as a "post wedding" bachelor party sounds. You will probably have a blast. They invited you, so go.I should add that while I like most of the people on that text thread (and many of them have already said they are in)... I can't stand the dude who is organizing all of this. He's in his early 50s and acts like he's still in high school (which is why his now ex-wife left him).
I guess I would be less irked by this if the text was, "hey, let's all go to Nashville and get fucked up a long weekend!" rather than, "hey, this is for our buddy, it's his official Bachelor party and if you miss it you'd really be letting him down"
For what it's worth, my wife thinks I'm overreacting and while she agrees it's ridiculous to hype it as a bachelor party... she has been saying all of us (well, 80% of the people on the text thread) should get together and catch up, so she isn't opposed to it. I disagree with her though, I think it's completely retarded and if the shoe was on the other foot and one of her retard friends sent out a text like that, I would think it was the dumbest thing ever.
I've been on the other end, and that sucks and ended friendships.